When the invitation says "BLACK TIE"
If the event you are attending is "black tie" & the invitation says the same, you are expected to wear a tuxedo. All guests invited to this fuction are required & expected to wear formalwear. However, this term does not mean you have to wear a black tie!

When the invitation says "BLACK TIE PREFERRED"
This means the host of the party prefers to see all guests in formalwear. You could wear a dark suit, but tuxedos are preferred.

When the invitation says "BLACK TIE INVITED OR OPTIONAL"
In this case, it is not mandatory to wear a tuxedo, however, you will probably see more tuxedos than dark suits at these affairs. Black tuxedos & white or ivory dinner jackets with black trousers are appropriate. However, dinner jackets should only be worn between Memorial Day & Labor Day.

When the invitation says "WHITE TIE"
This term means you must wear black tails with black trousers & a white pique' formal shirt, bow tie & vest. This ensemble is known as the "ultra formal look" & if your event calls for it, you should not wear anything else.

* People do it, but removing your tuxedo coat at an event is not proper. Discarding your coat is a sure way to destroy the pomp of a formal occasion.

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